Few think of the caretaker once his or her charge dies. Few realize that a caretaker faces a dilemma with which others may not have to deal. In this instance I refer to one who cares for a spouse or other family member. As a caretaker twice over, I found each case to be dramatically… Continue reading It’s a Caretaker’s Dilemma When She’s No Longer Needed
Category: Becoming a Caretaker
Many of us, at one time or another, will find ourselves caring for a relative or friend. Although it isn’t easy, it can be fulfilling. Through our looking glass, we hope to help make the caretakers’ tasks easier.
What Happens When You Become the Instant Caretaker
What do you do when there is no way to plan for becoming a caretaker? A year and a half ago I became the caretaker, not of a parent, but of an older brother. It sounds as though there isn’t much difference – except there was no way to plan ahead. He had been healthy until… Continue reading What Happens When You Become the Instant Caretaker
Is It Time to Become the Parent to Your Mom or Dad? Signs to Look for
Every once in a while, one of my kids will throw a sarcastic comment at me in response to something I said or an opinion I voiced, or perhaps one will roll her eyes at me or in some way, talk “down” to me. My instant reaction is irritation. However, I try to remember my… Continue reading Is It Time to Become the Parent to Your Mom or Dad? Signs to Look for
Should Grandma Move In with Us?
According to recent studies, more than 10 million Americans over 50 are caregivers to elderly family members. Of course, many seniors move to assisted living facilities or nursing homes and others may receive care in their own homes. When it comes to one’s parents, we Americans tend to take our responsibilities seriously and often that… Continue reading Should Grandma Move In with Us?