A Mexican Fiesta…Sort of

  We agreed to host the rehearsal dinner before a son’s wedding at our home because the bride and groom wanted to include many of their friends. They settled on a Mexican theme and equivalent food.  On the day of the event, rented tables and chairs were delivered, set up poolside and covered with brightly… Continue reading A Mexican Fiesta…Sort of

What Happens When You Become the Instant Caretaker

What do you do when there is no way to plan for becoming a caretaker?  A year and a half ago I became the caretaker, not of a parent, but of an older brother.  It sounds as though there isn’t much difference – except there was no way to plan ahead. He had been healthy until… Continue reading What Happens When You Become the Instant Caretaker

Lesson Learned: Never Host a Party Without Collecting Contact Info for Guests

  We were young….Jim in college and I was at home with a new baby.  Being young and foolish, we decided to host a holiday party. Invitations went out, and Jim hand-delivered invitations to several of his professors.  Now picture two young marrieds, clueless about cooking and baking and hosting, going all out for this… Continue reading Lesson Learned: Never Host a Party Without Collecting Contact Info for Guests

Is It Time to Become the Parent to Your Mom or Dad? Signs to Look for

Every once in a while, one of my kids will throw a sarcastic comment at me in response to something I said or an opinion I voiced, or perhaps one will roll her eyes at me or in some way, talk “down” to me.  My instant reaction is irritation.  However, I try to remember my… Continue reading Is It Time to Become the Parent to Your Mom or Dad? Signs to Look for